There’s no shortcut to building a thriving community. Kaelyn Grace Apple took the long route. It paid off.
Our guest this week is the founder of Accepted Society, a 500-member study-group community that generates around $14,000 monthly. The member-led community spans four countries, with members running sessions around the clock — requiring minimal time from Kaelyn herself.
In this episode:
📚 Why the slow path to community creates more durable connections
💰 How to price membership based on professional value
✍️ Enabling a community to function without the creator
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00:00 Introducing Kaelyn Grace Apple
01:28 From eight members to over 500
08:02 Why you should not scale too quickly
12:03 The course model vs. the community model
14:03 Using YouTube to build a community
18:42 Pricing a community
22:01 Scaling a business up, and scaling it down
30:46 The evolution of Kaelyn's YouTube content
37:24 Revenue breakdown
42:44 Why Kaelyn left the Ali Abdaal team
47:34 Lessons learned working with Ali Abdaal
53:47 Kaelyn's 30-year plan
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The anti-scale approach to community building
Five years ago, at the beginning of her PhD — alone, mid-pandemic, and missing the library study halls she'd relied on — Kaelyn Grace Apple invited her YouTube viewers to join a Zoom study session. Eight people showed up.
Today, 500 people pay up to $28 monthly to participate in the thriving community born from those sessions.
Those eight kept coming. Then 10, then 15, then 20. By summer 2021, with attendance hitting 20 regularly, Kaelyn began formalizing it. She hired her first team member, a former client, to help run sessions. They gave the group a name: Accepted Society.
By 2022, Accepted Society had begun to behave like a proper community. Members formed subgroups — parents in academia, disability and neurodivergent support — and began meeting up offline.
"When people are engaging outside of you — building friendships and support groups that have nothing to do with you — that's when you know it's a community.”
By 2023, the communal structure had matured, with daily sessions and monthly resets — a cadence that members could rely on. But Kaelyn herself was burning out. She'd just closed Accepted Consulting — her admissions coaching arm that she’d scaled to a team of 15 and 550 clients over three years — and was questioning whether she could sustain anything at all.
That same year, she took a job as Head of Product at Ali Abdaal's company, where she learned professional community management at scale — automation, systems, workflows. She brought those skills back to Accepted Society, but with an eye towards sustainability over scale.
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So she brought on Cait Murphy-Hurrel, a former consulting client who'd worked at Google and was pivoting toward her own PhD, as a 50-50 business partner to help manage Accepted Society. “Accepted is exactly what I needed when I was making the decision to prioritize my education,” Cait had told Kaelyn. Together, they rebranded around a member-led model, which doubled growth past what had been a 200-member plateau.
Today, their 500+ member community is global and diverse, spanning the U.S., Brazil, Singapore, and Australia, and comprising remote students, returning students in their 30s and 40s, and individuals with families or jobs that make in-person study sessions more challenging. In total, it generates around $14,000 monthly.

Accepted Society’s pricing mirrors what Kaelyn would pay for a professional membership ($28 monthly or $297 annually), but when 95% of departing members cited financial hardship in exit surveys, she established a scholarship program using quarterly revenue calculations.
"If Accepted didn't grow at all from here, I'd be dead chuffed. I make enough. My partner makes enough. If it stayed like this forever, I'd be delighted."
It’s an outlook that extends to her YouTube channel approach, where she's shifted from SEO-optimized tutorials to content she simply wants to exist — calling on scholars to counter misinformation, and being honest when deadlines mean fewer uploads. Her 2022 note-taking guide video, which has 1.7 million views, was strategic. Today, her videos are more values-driven. Her core audience still shows up.

Connect with Kaelyn on LinkedIn.
Learn more about Accepted Society.

The five-year playbook for building a sustainable community
Kaelyn’s playbook for Accepted Society spans five years. Here’s what you can glean from her timeline, and how her approach compares to other creators who’ve built communities that last.
Know who you’re building for, then charge accordingly
The $5 barrier Kaelyn set for those first co-study sessions was about filtering, not revenue. A barrier to entry incentivizes commitment.
"I knew that if you had some skin in the game, if you had a little bit of money on the line, that you were more likely to show up."
Former Spotlight guest Michael Kauffman started The Newsletter Club with the same principle — pricing has since changed, but in the beginning, members had to pay a one-time fee of $100 to join. Friction at the point of entry incentivizes people to stick around and contribute.
Enable a community to function without you
This is a consistent takeaway for every creator community we’ve covered.
For nearly two years, Kaelyn ran Accepted as "a co-studying space" or "accountability workshops,” before her community grew large enough to begin segmenting independently.
"People weren’t just joining because of me. They might have learned about it because of me, but they were staying because of each other."
Former Spotlight guest Colin Rocker measures success in his community, For the Firsts, by how decentralized he is from his community. Sometimes members show up and don’t know who he is, meaning the community itself has become its own draw.
Tiffany Yu's Diversability, a disability-focused community, works because local chapter leads created connection points without requiring her constant moderation. After 16 years, members create value for each other, not just consume it from her.
Have your community’s needs built into your model
When Kaelyn analyzed churn, 95% of membership cancellations cited financial hardship. So she built a scholarship program with quarterly funding and member-gifted spots as a retention strategy (people who leave due to affordability are often the most engaged members once a solution has been granted). She didn't launch with scholarships — she built them as a solution to an emergent problem.
Former Spotlight guest Melanie Ehrenkranz mirrors this with her newsletter and Discord community, Laid Off — giving away hundreds of free Discord invites to a financially vulnerable audience.
Tiffany Yu tracks every paid opportunity her members secure through Diversability, then builds programming around what's actually generating income for them.
Key takeaway: Identify patterns in your community data and develop infrastructure that meets their needs.

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